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Cheating may not factor into New Jersey spousal support

When a New Jersey marriage ends due to infidelity, emotions can run high. The wronged spouse often feels that his or her mistreatment should factor into the divorce process, and that there should be a measure of consideration granted for the difficulties endured during the union. However, when it comes to determining the financial aspects of a divorce, such as property division or spousal support, cheating plays little or no role in that process.

Infidelity comes into play during a divorce only under certain circumstances. For example, if a spouse significantly dissipated marital assets to conduct an affair, those expenses may be considered during the property division process. However, proving these expenses can be difficult, and the legal fees associated with that discovery process can quickly outpace any monetary gain that may result.

Is fear of spoiling children a reason not to pay child support?

Let's say you're a high asset couple in New Jersey with a couple of children, and you decide to get a divorce. During your settlement process you split your assets and arrange for spousal maintenance payments. Now comes the difficult part of figuring out how much should be paid out in child support. This can especially be difficult if one spouse thinks that the other spouse will not use the money how it's intended to be spent.

Such is the case with Los Angeles Lakers play Steve Nash who explained to the press last month that he was concerned his ex-wife would do just that if he gave her more in child support. During a recent court hearing, Nash argued that he shouldn't be forced to pay more in child support because he thinks that his ex-wife is already getting enough in the divorce settlement and will only use the money to spoil their three children. Although the judge ruled in favor of Nash, his ex-wife, Alejandra Amarilla, is appealing the court's decision.

Debate over permanent alimony continues

Last week, we discussed permanent alimony and some people's efforts to eliminate it. Permanent alimony may be granted to New Jersey residents in some situations. While alimony can prevent major financial hardships for one spouse, opponents of permanent alimony believe it discourages recipients from going out and earning their own money.

New Jersey readers of this blog may remember that in last week's post we mentioned that Florida lawmakers had passed a bill that would eliminate permanent alimony and that would set caps on payments based on the length of the marriage.

Other states pushing to end permanent alimony

A lot of people dream about their wedding day. They imagine the white dress, the flowers and the toasts. While most wedding days are momentous occasions, the marriage may not be as rosy.

As a lot of New Jersey residents know, many marriages end in divorce. However, many people remained tied to their former partner as a result of permanent alimony.

Should divorce news be shared on social media sites?

Our lives have been forever changed since we were first introduced to social media. It seems that everyone in New Jersey and beyond uses some type of social media platform. Despite social media's widespread use, do people know how to use it appropriately?

Some people use social media to announce their divorce. While it gets the word out quickly, some people find that tactic to be a bit inappropriate. Some have even called it tacky.

Reality TV star discusses her recent divorce

New Jersey residents are likely familiar with Bethenny Frankel. The reality television star was married in March 2010. Earlier this year, she filed for divorce. She recently confessed to how difficult the divorce process can be, calling it "excruciating."

Although going through a divorce can be hard, it may be necessary for some couples. Couples may realize that they want different things in life. Addiction, infidelity and abuse may also play a part in some couples' divorces.

New Jersey lottery winner pays past due child support

A New Jersey man got the surprise of a lifetime recently when he won the Powerball. He chose to walk away with the lump-sum payment, claiming $152 million. Although the man seemed to be on a lucky streak, it was later determined that he owed close to $30,000 in past due child support for three of his five children.

The man was in court today. Since his big win, the New Jersey resident has settled his child support debts. The three children that the child support was due for will reportedly begin living with him.

One couple learning that high-value assets can make divorce process more complex

Whether you live in New Jersey or another state, most couples want to avoid divorce. However, certain circumstances may make staying together impossible.

Infidelity appears to be a main factor in one couple's divorce. Because of their vast wealth, this divorce will likely be anything but simple.

New Jersey dad arrested for failing to pay child support

Welcoming a child into the world is often one of the most joyful experiences for a person. Most parents want to provide their children with a secure and stable life. Because of that, child support is often a necessary part of the divorce process.

Whether you live in East Brunswick or elsewhere, parents should work to ensure their children are set up for success. Therefore, it is important that courts determine appropriate child support amounts and that parents follow through on those payments.

Are changes to New Jersey alimony laws coming in the near future?

Changes to alimony laws in New Jersey could come as soon as Oct. 1 if a proposed bill is passed by lawmakers. The new bill seeks to eliminate permanent alimony as well as set more clear guidelines for judges who award alimony.

Late last year, a New Jersey resident was put behind bars after he failed to pay alimony to his former wife. The man divorced his wife two years ago after 11 years of marriage. On top of child support, he was required to pay his former wife $104,000 in alimony every year. However, those payments were impossible to make when the man only earned $90,000 a year.

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